Monday, March 8, 2010

Marriage & Divorce (part I of many)

I don't feel like I can throw away everything I’ve gained, lost, invested in, worked on, endured, sacrificed, survived, gained, gained, gained in the last 11 years. In my mind, I know there has to be a way, we have to learn how to communicate differently. We have to make changes. And maybe the more time apart we have, or the more loss and pain I feel right now, will maybe give me even more motivation in the future to stick with making all those changes, and putting in the extra effort to figure out where we lost our ability to communicate.

Here's a quote that a friend shared with me this morning: "getting divorced during a hard time is like cutting off your foot because you have a hangnail"

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