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Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Hannah Montana
Before I begin my rant……I just want to say we saw the movie on Friday and loved it!
Why the controversy? I'm so sick of reading and hearing about all the negative media surrounding this girl. There are girls her age that are pregnant, on drugs, boozing it up at parties, failing out of school; the list could go on and on. Yet here is this 16 yr old girl who had a dream of becoming a singer, had the parents who were able to get her in the door, and now she’s able to do something she loves for a living. I’m sorry, I’m confused where the problem lies. Some say she isn’t a good role model, well who labeled her as one? Did she ask to be the role model for every girl aged 5-15 in the world? I’m pretty sure that would be a daunting task for anyone from the First Lady to the Queen of England. If you don’t want your kid following her, emulating her, or aspiring to be like her then turn off the TV! I don’t want my 7 yr old emulating Carrie Bradshaw & Co., therefore she isn’t allowed to watch that particular show (or any R rated programming, but that’s beside the point)……it really is that simple, folks. I’m tired of reading articles bashing Hannah/Miley for no solid reason. So what if she parked in a handicapped spot to get ice cream, so what if she made some “diva-ish” comments? I’m sure we all do things like this on any given day; we just don’t have the paparazzi around to prove it. All of us except of course the journalists who write these articles, because only someone with that amount of perfection could so easily write an entire article slandering a 16 yr old girl for being……um, what should we call it? Oh yeah, a TEENAGER! I mean, why should every single mistake be called out? Because she’s in the public eye? That’s bullshit. MSN journalist Martha Brokenbrough states, “For a teen who knows she's in the public eye to do this sort of stuff suggests she's either none too bright or views herself exempt from normal consequences.” The media and the fans are the ones who place these people on pedestals and then have the nerve to act shocked and appalled if they do something human. While Miley Cyrus awkwardly endures her teen years in front of cameras and major scrutiny, she still manages to handle a full time career (with working hours that could put many of us to shame), take time out for her fans, and overall show that it’s okay to be yourself---your imperfect self.
In summation Brokenbrough says, “For now, Miley Cyrus continues to be a great role model for kids, but only in unintended ways. She shows that talent, wealth and beauty are superficial things, and are no replacement for character. She might not be learning much from her mistakes, but our kids can”. Are you fucking kidding me? Forget the fact that “talent, wealth and beauty” is what our society obsesses over and has since long before Miley Cyrus was even born; so putting that aside-- I’m not looking at Miley Cyrus to teach my kid lessons, that’s my job, you know the one she calls “mom”. I agree our children are influenced by what they are exposed to, yes. But as far as what exactly they’re exposed to, the frequency, and how the child interprets it? Parent’s job. My 7 year old LOVES Hannah Montana, but she’s clueless about the controversial sheet photo ,handicapped parking incident, or the slanted eyes picture. Why? Because my 7 year old doesn’t read MSN, gossip websites, or Vanity Fair magazine! The bottom line is our children are going to pick someone in the limelight to obsess over, and personally I’m okay with it being Hannah Montana. There are a lot worse out there to choose from.
Why the controversy? I'm so sick of reading and hearing about all the negative media surrounding this girl. There are girls her age that are pregnant, on drugs, boozing it up at parties, failing out of school; the list could go on and on. Yet here is this 16 yr old girl who had a dream of becoming a singer, had the parents who were able to get her in the door, and now she’s able to do something she loves for a living. I’m sorry, I’m confused where the problem lies. Some say she isn’t a good role model, well who labeled her as one? Did she ask to be the role model for every girl aged 5-15 in the world? I’m pretty sure that would be a daunting task for anyone from the First Lady to the Queen of England. If you don’t want your kid following her, emulating her, or aspiring to be like her then turn off the TV! I don’t want my 7 yr old emulating Carrie Bradshaw & Co., therefore she isn’t allowed to watch that particular show (or any R rated programming, but that’s beside the point)……it really is that simple, folks. I’m tired of reading articles bashing Hannah/Miley for no solid reason. So what if she parked in a handicapped spot to get ice cream, so what if she made some “diva-ish” comments? I’m sure we all do things like this on any given day; we just don’t have the paparazzi around to prove it. All of us except of course the journalists who write these articles, because only someone with that amount of perfection could so easily write an entire article slandering a 16 yr old girl for being……um, what should we call it? Oh yeah, a TEENAGER! I mean, why should every single mistake be called out? Because she’s in the public eye? That’s bullshit. MSN journalist Martha Brokenbrough states, “For a teen who knows she's in the public eye to do this sort of stuff suggests she's either none too bright or views herself exempt from normal consequences.” The media and the fans are the ones who place these people on pedestals and then have the nerve to act shocked and appalled if they do something human. While Miley Cyrus awkwardly endures her teen years in front of cameras and major scrutiny, she still manages to handle a full time career (with working hours that could put many of us to shame), take time out for her fans, and overall show that it’s okay to be yourself---your imperfect self.
In summation Brokenbrough says, “For now, Miley Cyrus continues to be a great role model for kids, but only in unintended ways. She shows that talent, wealth and beauty are superficial things, and are no replacement for character. She might not be learning much from her mistakes, but our kids can”. Are you fucking kidding me? Forget the fact that “talent, wealth and beauty” is what our society obsesses over and has since long before Miley Cyrus was even born; so putting that aside-- I’m not looking at Miley Cyrus to teach my kid lessons, that’s my job, you know the one she calls “mom”. I agree our children are influenced by what they are exposed to, yes. But as far as what exactly they’re exposed to, the frequency, and how the child interprets it? Parent’s job. My 7 year old LOVES Hannah Montana, but she’s clueless about the controversial sheet photo ,handicapped parking incident, or the slanted eyes picture. Why? Because my 7 year old doesn’t read MSN, gossip websites, or Vanity Fair magazine! The bottom line is our children are going to pick someone in the limelight to obsess over, and personally I’m okay with it being Hannah Montana. There are a lot worse out there to choose from.
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
Ever Since We Got a Chihuahua
Ever since we got a Chihuahua…..phrases like “your turn to clean it up”, “did you actually see her pee outside?”, “Alexandria! There’s dog crap in your sister’s room!”, and “she’s chewing on a Barbie shoe!” are now common everyday phrases in our household.
…We now all wear holy underwear and have had to throw several pair away……
Ever since we got a Chihuahua…The smell of Febreeze, Glade Plug-Ins, and Lysol are always wafting in the breeze at our home……
…My stress levels have risen…
Ever since we got a Chihuahua…I step into unidentified wet spots on almost a daily basis…and I now know exactly which brand of paper towels is best for soaking up dog piss…
…My blood pressure has risen....
Ever since we got a Chihuahua…I have stood on my back patio in my underwear many a night begging her to get in the grass and pee so we could go inside (where it’s warm)…
…My love for animals has declined……I no longer think puppies are cute…
...Ever since we got a Chihuahua…I have been witness to many disgusting events…such as a dog eating its own poop, vomiting, then eating the vomit (suppressing gag reflex as I type…deep breaths in through the nose…)
Ever since we got a Chihuahua, I have a greater appreciation and more love for my cats……who all live outside.
…We now all wear holy underwear and have had to throw several pair away……
Ever since we got a Chihuahua…The smell of Febreeze, Glade Plug-Ins, and Lysol are always wafting in the breeze at our home……
…My stress levels have risen…
Ever since we got a Chihuahua…I step into unidentified wet spots on almost a daily basis…and I now know exactly which brand of paper towels is best for soaking up dog piss…
…My blood pressure has risen....
Ever since we got a Chihuahua…I have stood on my back patio in my underwear many a night begging her to get in the grass and pee so we could go inside (where it’s warm)…
…My love for animals has declined……I no longer think puppies are cute…
...Ever since we got a Chihuahua…I have been witness to many disgusting events…such as a dog eating its own poop, vomiting, then eating the vomit (suppressing gag reflex as I type…deep breaths in through the nose…)
Ever since we got a Chihuahua, I have a greater appreciation and more love for my cats……who all live outside.
Thursday, April 2, 2009
Olivia Grace
Our sweet soon to be 3 yr old! She fills our days with oh so many quotable quotes…I thought I’d share a few of my recent faves.
Olivia: “I have a booger in my nose, I can’t get it puz (because) it’s too heavy.”
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Me or Abel on any given day: “Olivia why did you snatch that toy from your sister’s hand?”, “Olivia why did you hit the dog?”, “Olivia why did you throw that across the room?”, “Why did you jump off of there? I told you that you would get hurt!”
Olivia: “puz I did”
(yeah, I’m really not sure why we continue to ask her “why” she does anything.)
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After being spanked on the bottom for doing something (can’t remember what):
Olivia: “I’m sorry you pank me, puz you did”.
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Repeating the ABC’s with her daddy:
Daddy: “P”
Olivia: “B”
Daddy: “no, P”
Olivia: “bees fly away”
Daddy: “no, the letter Peeeeee” (with extreme enunciation)
Olivia: “ohhhhhh-kaaaaay” (long pause) “sing McDonald now”
Daddy: (exasperated sigh) “fine”
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When caught trying to write on the wall with a pen:
Me: “Olivia! Stop! We don’t write on walls.”
Olivia: “we write on paper (exaggerating the word)”
Me: “that’s right. So go find some paper on your desk to write on”
Olivia: “I don’t, I write on walls”
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While in the store parking lot one day:
Olivia: “poo poo!!” (gales of laughter) “poo poos!”
Me: “Olivia, let’s not shout that out while we’re in a public place”
Olivia:” poo poos!” (followed by laughter again of course—because at the age of 2 this word is hilarious
Me: “look, no one is talking about poo poo right now”
Olivia: “I am”
Olivia: “I have a booger in my nose, I can’t get it puz (because) it’s too heavy.”
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Me or Abel on any given day: “Olivia why did you snatch that toy from your sister’s hand?”, “Olivia why did you hit the dog?”, “Olivia why did you throw that across the room?”, “Why did you jump off of there? I told you that you would get hurt!”
Olivia: “puz I did”
(yeah, I’m really not sure why we continue to ask her “why” she does anything.)
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After being spanked on the bottom for doing something (can’t remember what):
Olivia: “I’m sorry you pank me, puz you did”.
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Repeating the ABC’s with her daddy:
Daddy: “P”
Olivia: “B”
Daddy: “no, P”
Olivia: “bees fly away”
Daddy: “no, the letter Peeeeee” (with extreme enunciation)
Olivia: “ohhhhhh-kaaaaay” (long pause) “sing McDonald now”
Daddy: (exasperated sigh) “fine”
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When caught trying to write on the wall with a pen:
Me: “Olivia! Stop! We don’t write on walls.”
Olivia: “we write on paper (exaggerating the word)”
Me: “that’s right. So go find some paper on your desk to write on”
Olivia: “I don’t, I write on walls”
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While in the store parking lot one day:
Olivia: “poo poo!!” (gales of laughter) “poo poos!”
Me: “Olivia, let’s not shout that out while we’re in a public place”
Olivia:” poo poos!” (followed by laughter again of course—because at the age of 2 this word is hilarious
Me: “look, no one is talking about poo poo right now”
Olivia: “I am”
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