There is nothing worse then someone trying to take your feelings from you...ok there's a lot worse things, but right now this is the subject I want to address. Why is it so hard to validate other's feelings? Good, bad or ugly. If I don't want help from someone because I learned a very long time ago that "help" tends to come with a price or implications that I'm stupid or needy, two characteristics that I don't want to be associated with; or if I speak as if I'm right, yet willing to say "oh shit, my bad" when told I'm wrong. WHO CARES? Why is it such a BIG DEAL????
And why is it that people who have had the "worst lives" out of everyone on earth (and believe me there are a lot of people who have this mentalilty), think that no one can possibly understand or that no one else's problems matter just because we allegedly have it better in life? There will always be someone who has endured worse then you; ALWAYS. There will always be someone who is fighting the same battle as you, there will always be survivors of varying degrees, and there will always be those who give up, and lay down and die. Problems don't discriminate. So who gets to say who has it better or worse? I have never understood the ignorance of looking at someone's life from the outside and deciding they have it better or worse. We all have our demons. No one is the judge of who's is worse.
My point in all this?? SHUT UP and QUIT WHINING.
And why is it that people who have had the "worst lives" out of everyone on earth (and believe me there are a lot of people who have this mentalilty), think that no one can possibly understand or that no one else's problems matter just because we allegedly have it better in life? There will always be someone who has endured worse then you; ALWAYS. There will always be someone who is fighting the same battle as you, there will always be survivors of varying degrees, and there will always be those who give up, and lay down and die. Problems don't discriminate. So who gets to say who has it better or worse? I have never understood the ignorance of looking at someone's life from the outside and deciding they have it better or worse. We all have our demons. No one is the judge of who's is worse.
My point in all this?? SHUT UP and QUIT WHINING.
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