The day is long and slow…….stretched out before me like a winding dirt road that disappears on the edge of the horizon. Nothing for miles around……..the air is still, no sounds of nature, no sign of life.
Crickets chirping... a sound from my childhood. TV on mute... just flashing lights. Digital numbers on the alarm clock... an eerie blue. The air in the room... almost audible. And sleep eludes me.... My day flashes before me... then the past weeks, months, and years. Random thoughts... random memories. Tears fill my eyes, and sleep eludes me.
"I'm wondering how birds find their way.... There are so many things I don't understand. What makes a woman not love a man? I think I should just be alone. I think I should find my way home." ~Jonah Matranga
All of “them” on my mind, 'Baby You Save Me' playin' on the radio-- dedicated between lovers, 11 years worth of guilt bubbling up, an old movie on TV conjuring up memories of better days, stressful workweek, and too much caffeine.
I think I used to have this idea that adulthood was finite. That we grew up, made our lives, settled into a routine and that was it. I'm not sure how or why I missed the memo that life will never stop changing. So here I am almost 34 yrs old, and still trying to figure myself out; figure life out. Along for the ride are my two amazing kiddos, my dysfunctional family, a few friends, and some guest appearances by random men as I also navigate the fun world of dating. They say to write well you should write about what you know. So here goes..
To read from the beginning of the end of our marriage
My new profile doesn't include that I was married from age 19 to 31. We divorced after 11 yrs of marriage and 1 yr of seperation. Our divorce has been final for 2 yrs now.